"Any other advice from my elder jeepers here? Such as "If I could do it over again...." or "I wish I had never...". Any subject from finances to family to food."
You take back that "elder" comment and we can talk.
One of the programs at my Lockheed office will be deploying to Iraq this summer and a few guys are going with it, to tune in the field. My Data Architect transfered to this, for the chance to deploy. He's interested in the adventure, saying "life is about the stories you collect." There is some truth to that. Certainly, Chris, you've already built a vault of stories. Don't shy from sharing them, even the ones that are not as pleasant.
For us, we've taken the position of saving for the future, but not waiting for the future. Think about what you like to do, then get out and do it while you are young and nimble. Make those stories and take lots of pictures. Experience the awesome places our country has to offer. Here are my big ticket, must see destinations:
1. Alaska: we have to see this soon, or I'll explode
2. Grand Canyon: been there many times, can't get enough
3. Yellowstone: you simply cannot imagine how cool this is
4. Colorado Jeep trails: sensory overload
5. Moab: not been there yet
6. Hawaii: not been there yet
7. Washington, DC: for a sense of history and sacrifice
8. Pacific Northwest: Going to Washington State this summer
9. Moscow: I want to see the forbidden world
10. Switzerland: I want to touch the sky
There are many more, but these call to me most. Our trip to Yellowstone last year was the perfect model. Planned for months, and executed at a slow pace, to soak it all in. 2500 pictures that stimulate spectacular memories. While driving around that wonderland, with a surprise around every turn, we never stopped saying, "this is the time of our lives."
My other sage advice is to not have kids too early. Live and love with only your spouse, defining your marriage first. Then have kids. Having kids too early risks having children be the only thing that defines your relationship with your spouse.
I add my apologies for aiding and abetting the hijacking. May you fully recover Ebtek, to enjoy pizza once again. Oddly enough, on this Jeep forum, we didn't care about the condition of your Jeep any more than the officer did. Take care of yourself and get well.